What is Gwyneth thinking about A-Rod?

While Madonna went out in L.A. last night, her friend Gwyneth Paltrow and rumored lover Alex Rodriguez were at a party in Miami.  Was Gwyneth keeping tabs on A-Rod?  Is Gwyneth cool with them dating? (After all, Paltrow stood at Madonna and Guy's wedding.) 

Also this week, tabloid stories claimed that Madonna has been telling pals that A-Rod "has the heart of a poet trapped inside an insanely gorgeous body."