Nov 13th, 2008 | Self survey

Half-your-age-plus-7 rule


The half-your-age-plus-seven rule is a mathematical guide to judge whether the age difference in an intimate relationship is socially acceptable. Mathematically speaking, the rule is (Minimum Age) = (Age of the Older Individual) / 2 + 7.

For example, if Shane is 30 and wants to date Kristen, who is 20, he would be in violation of the rule, since the minimum age being 22. Notice, however, that the age difference matters less as the potential partners grow older. In this case, Shane would have four years to wait before the age difference in the relationship was "socially acceptable".

Note that what is implied by "socially acceptable" is largely a cultural construct, and has varied over time. Anna Nicole Smith and J. Howard Marshall were 26 and 89 at the time of their relationship.


Half-your-age-plus-7 rule


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Bmccue7
(Reply)
Georgia, United States

posted May 6th, 2009 at 09:15 CDT

My grandparents had a 20 year age difference, and they seemed to get along.

Careohless
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South Carolina, United States

posted May 6th, 2009 at 08:52 CDT

I'm still the same age. :|

Johnson
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Connecticut, United States

posted Nov 15th, 2008 at 09:32 CST

I agree. This seems about right to me. But once the younger half is past 18 it would be impossible to enforce such a rule. My father would not beliee in this rule.

Macbrock
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Florida, United States

posted Nov 14th, 2008 at 05:26 CST

At my age ALL rules are scuttled. The weird emails i get are from women, mostly from the "under 30's". Weird is good, at least it's refreshing.

 
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