Sep 20th, 2008 | Self survey

You have a female friend that you care about very much. She asks, "Do these pants make me look fat?" You think they do. What do you say to her?



You have a female friend that you care about very much. She asks, Do these pants make me look fat? You think they do. What do you say to her?


80 votes, 229 views , 13 comments
 
 
Poll tags:Self, Body Image, Friends, Fat, Weight Issues, Diplomacy, Manners

 
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Comments (13)
Emobabe694
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United Kingdom

posted May 11th, 2009 at 15:30 CDT

I would just say yes, because i always speak my mind no matter who it is. They are better off knowing the truth anyway, then they can do something about it and look better.

Careohless
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South Carolina, United States

posted May 3rd, 2009 at 00:04 CDT

How about a simple "Yes"? =|

Bmccue7
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Georgia, United States

posted Sep 27th, 2008 at 19:01 CDT

You sound like someone who knows how to be a good friend. I'm not always like that, but I should be.

Yvettej
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United Arab Emirates

posted Sep 27th, 2008 at 17:31 CDT

i would say that i think she looks great in anything because thats the truth and thats what friends do..

Iowagirl
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Iowa, United States

posted Sep 24th, 2008 at 11:16 CDT

If that was my actual friends ass, i wouldn't think she was fat...but I would tell her she needed some help in the jeans buying department.  No one, i mean NO ONE should ever look like their ass starts at the base of the neck

Frecklesrsexy
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Ohio, United States

posted Sep 23rd, 2008 at 10:36 CDT

i would just say "they don't look good on you" or "i don't like them"

Bmccue7
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Georgia, United States

posted Sep 22nd, 2008 at 10:28 CDT

That's more diplomacy than I can usually manage!

Scooter
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New York, United States

posted Sep 22nd, 2008 at 08:29 CDT

There's a good way to do this.You could say, you're beautiful and I wouldn't lie to you, you're not fat but those pants make you look like you are. And THAT'S my most honest opinion, but only because you asked.

Mscrowe
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Florida, United States

posted Sep 21st, 2008 at 08:40 CDT

Good question.

Charlie_bee
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United Kingdom

posted Sep 21st, 2008 at 07:52 CDT

How about "I think you look better in..."

Xoohmyjonasxo
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Maryland, United States

posted Sep 21st, 2008 at 00:27 CDT

watch "mom jeans" from SNL...hahahahahahahahahah a...lol

Dawnbells
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Kansas, United States

posted Sep 20th, 2008 at 20:09 CDT

Too many scenarios surrounding the question. Too many "if's" and "depends". Considering just the picture, I would probably pick #4. Or possibly agree with you, Bmccue7. (no offense, your polls are terrific)

Philgtaylor
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Australia

posted Sep 20th, 2008 at 19:12 CDT

My solution: If it was my girlfriend saying this, I would ask her to turn around, and then look lustfully at her ass. She will know I approve.

 
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