Personally, I would say unphased can still be your style. And, you got me thinking so I looked it up lol: ...Showing no friendliness toward a person or enthusiasm for an idea or project : he gave a cool reception to the suggestion for a research center.• free from excitement or anxiety : he prided himself on keeping a cool head | she seems cool, calm, and collected.• calmly audacious : such an expensive strategy requires cool nerves.• (of jazz, esp. modern jazz) restrained and relaxed.2 informal fashionably attractive or impressive : I always wore sunglasses to look cool.
On a rather literal level, cool means "unphased." You don't stress out, you don't over-react, you don't get offended. It is all about attitude, and is the opposite of passion. It has nothing, at all, to do with style.
Yeah, that's a much better definition than mine. In line with my impressions, though.
Personally, I would say unphased can still be your style. And, you got me thinking so I looked it up lol: ...Showing no friendliness toward a person or enthusiasm for an idea or project : he gave a cool reception to the suggestion for a research center.• free from excitement or anxiety : he prided himself on keeping a cool head | she seems cool, calm, and collected.• calmly audacious : such an expensive strategy requires cool nerves.• (of jazz, esp. modern jazz) restrained and relaxed.2 informal fashionably attractive or impressive : I always wore sunglasses to look cool.
On a rather literal level, cool means "unphased." You don't stress out, you don't over-react, you don't get offended. It is all about attitude, and is the opposite of passion. It has nothing, at all, to do with style.