Apr 26th, 2008 | Love survey

theres this guy i really, really, really, really like and he knows, so he's really nice 2 me like he gives me hugs and all and i always come up 2 him and talk 2 him but he never comes up 2 me and talk 2 me so can anyone help me and tell me wat 2 do


ive been working on this for a while and it whould mean a lot if some one helped me cuz i havea lot of feelings for this guy but he doesntrelize that  :(

i really do luv him




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Poll tags:Love, Relation Ships, Guys, Girls, Help, Advice

 
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Ecpjll
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Canada

posted Jun 24th, 2009 at 18:36 CDT

He likes the attention and is flattered but doesn't feel the same way. He at least very clearly doesnt want a relationship with you. Move on.

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posted May 22nd, 2008 at 03:14 CDT

U can tell that he likes you....u just gotta u know...be strong nd ask him out or somthin...nd if he dosnt come up 2 talk 2 u..it is soo likely that he is shy or dosnt know that u wanna talk to him..

Mrsrich1
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Maryland, United States

posted May 14th, 2008 at 21:16 CDT

ask him out. i asked my husband for his number because he was too shy to ask for mine. be bold and go after what you want.

Arturo
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Mexico

posted May 7th, 2008 at 12:55 CDT

Gatter some guts and ask him for a date. Dates are highly complex mating rituals, like the peafowl tail and dancing stuff. Yeah, kind of crude, but it's a start. *shrugs*

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posted May 5th, 2008 at 14:20 CDT

Maybe this dude is just joshing you. Sometimes guys act like something they're not, just like girls can do sometimes, even in they don't really want to act that way!

Officeshrew
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Alabama, United States

posted Apr 28th, 2008 at 14:00 CDT

one lesson that is hard to learn....we need to feel whole as a person before we look for someone to share time with....love yourself first and the rest will come later....no need to rush my dear.

Gigglybritches
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Texas, United States

posted Apr 27th, 2008 at 23:07 CDT

Ask him how he feels about you. If he doesn't give you a straight answer. (Either a yes or no) then find someone else. If he says yes ask him out. Life is too short to play games and sit around wondering.

Juiced
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Canada

posted Apr 27th, 2008 at 11:03 CDT

You should see what would happen if you ask him out...although it's not exactly right for a girl to ask a guy out, he'll see that you're serious and see what happens from there. Good luck!

Mustangeddie
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Virginia, United States

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 21:04 CDT

He's just being polite whenver you approach or are around him. He has no desire to initiate anything else with you.

Engreirte
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California, United States

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 20:17 CDT

Ken and Billy have good points.   I assume he's your age.  Could he be shy in this regard and/or not ready for a girlfriend?  If you have a party, please ask your parents.

Goodbye
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Zimbabwe

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 19:01 CDT

You are wise beyond your years Ken but there is an alternative plan. Invite him to a party at your house. Just invite some friends over and include him. Get to know him better and maybe you and he can be boyfriend/girlfriend some day.

Modelchaser
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Switzerland

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 17:56 CDT

start being nice to some other guy, and you'll see how this guy realizes all of a sudden. We only know to appreciate what we have when we lose it.

Derrick
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Florida, United States

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 17:40 CDT

Kengarnett has a point. Boys will be boys. Try to read the situation - Is he nice to other girls to? You can try not coming up to him for a couple of days, see if he starts coming up to you. If he doesnt - don't worry. A cuter boy will come along

Raz
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Australia

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 17:16 CDT

It doesn't matter what we say.   What do you think are your options....what do you think you should do?  Go with the one you believe is right, the one that follows your beliefs, your heart, your values and maintains your integrity.

Bearden829
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Pennsylvania, United States

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 16:48 CDT

Also, throwing yourself at the guy doesn't help.  Play a little harder to get and he'll be interested then.  And...if he isn't then he wasn't worth it anyway.  Don't be this guys ego trip. 

Kengarnett
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Arizona, United States

posted Apr 26th, 2008 at 16:40 CDT

Honestly, I think you are too young to be talking about love.  Being a teenage boy once, I know what teenage boys are generally after, and it's probably not the same thing you necessarily want and that you may later regert.  I'll let my older and wiser counterparts on the site offer better advice, though.

 
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